- "Why do not you go if you are happier if you do not like, if you want to experience something different, why?"
- "Because children ..."
How many times have I heard this phrase and how ... many times this sentence shocked me! For
bring welfare of a child as a banner in front of a personal being evil seems to be a very great injustice.
The reasons why we do not want to stop a relationship that no longer satisfies us often have nothing to do with the happiness of our children, but with ours.
Fear of being alone, to stay, afraid to break, battered but still romantic feelings present, and even financial reasons are often the true motivations of parents who "despite themselves" in a couple dying.
Unfortunately, they then raise their children the full weight of their dissatisfaction, often without even realizing it ... what a responsibility for these children there! And what a pain for all.
behalf Because of this so-called family balancing their offer? Arguments, irritations daily contempt for others, indifference, or worse, forced smiles ...
That their stay there in those years when they become adults? What image of the couple's love life will keep it?
It seems to me that our greatest duty to our children is a duty of happiness.
It's up to us to show them the way of love shared whatsoever. Because that's in their adult lives, they will, despite the difficulties, being with others can be a source of joy and well being beautiful.
What a great legacy we leave them so ...
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